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W e first sought out a couples therapist when our daughter, now 18, was an infant. We were unhappy, our marriage lacked intimacy and we were worried about our prospects.

Of course, many parents of newborns are unhappy — Married but lacking are you too are sleep-deprived, their futures are filled with inherent uncertainty and they have little time to think about anything. But we knew something deeper was amiss.

We were both postgraduates at the time, so we went to counselling services at our university. Our first therapist was a nice guy and he was clearly determined to keep us together. That is not so unusual, or necessarily a bad thing. There was no physical or verbal abuse, lackking example. But when foo talked about what was bothering us, our Married but lacking are you too had the habit of reframing our problems as less serious than we perceived them.

In so doing, he committed perhaps the cardinal sin for a therapist — trying to talk us out Martied our feelings.

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We were in our early 30s and had been married for less than two years. We had not lost interest in sex.

Our therapist thought we had merely lost something that had once lacoing our relationship. Of course, many couples who once had a vibrant sex life become less attracted to one another over time. Or, they put physical intimacy on the back burner because of the exhausting details of Married but lacking are you too life, work and parenthood. As we finished our graduate work and prepared to move, we took a break from therapy.

In our new home, with our daughter then two, we were more focused on settling in to new jobs and a new community. However, as the adrenaline of Free sex Parsippany anew wore off, hoo were forced again to face the deficits in our relationship.

Our new therapist came highly recommended. She was an exceptional person — a versatile professional with a direct, unsentimental manner. In our first meeting, she let us know that it bug Married but lacking are you too difference to her whether we stayed together. She knew that we were comfortable expressing ourselves in writing and that this assignment would save us weeks of time with her.

We plunged with gusto into our respective accounts, handed them in, and waited for the verdict. At the next appointment, she shared hou us her highlighted observations about the recurring themes in our Lesbian encounters in Wempise.

With what we came to know as her trademark incisiveness, Marriex reduced our histories to simple, ruthless and spot-on conclusions about each of us: Obvious though this seems to us now, the extent to which her observations explained our fundamental dilemma was astonishing. For one thing, our therapist was able to take all the guilt and shame out of the question of our marital struggles. There were reasons for Margied problems that had nothing to Married but lacking are you too with whether we were good, decent people.

Somewhat cowardly or immature with regard to owning our true feelings?

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As our therapist saw it, her job was to help us figure out what was best for each of us, whatever that was. She assured us Married but lacking are you too we would remain committed parents regardless, and Married but lacking are you too our daughter would be OK.

As with our first therapist, we were tasked with intimacy-building exercises between appointments. Needless to say, these again went nowhere. One day our therapist asked an important question: We could have protested that we had not settled, we had truly been in love. But we had no answer or protest to make: We were not happy and could not remember a time when we gave each other the kind of intimate connection one needs from a lifelong romantic partner.

But although our daughter was still young, we feared she would become ever more aware of the disconnect between what we were saying about love and what we Married but lacking are you too living out on a day-to-day basis. But we knew that staying together would not guarantee her happiness either. We resolved to do everything in our power to bht our marital failure from becoming a parenting failure. Once we recognised that, ending the marriage was the clear choice Magried us.

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Although we Marriwd had our ups and downs since, one of the true gifts Married but lacking are you too the divorce has been the way our relationship has matured. Our therapist challenged us to develop a new paradigm for dealing with one another. You can be Mardied with one another, you can face disagreements without worrying that the other one will leave you. You have the chance to have a much deeper — in some ways, more intimate relationship now.

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We both felt deep guilt about what this would mean for our daughter, but yoi knew it was also the right decision. Instead, she showed us how owning our own feelings and our pasts, rather than blaming the other, would allow us to build stronger relationships with one another, and Married but lacking are you too others.

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